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Sunday, February 24, 2013

Good Grief!


A Sermon Based Upon Luke 13: 31-35
By Rev. Dr. Charles J. Tomlin, DMin
Flat Rock-Zion Baptist Partnership
Lent 2, February 24, 2013

“How often have I desired to gather our children together as a hen gathers her brood under her wings, and you were not willing!”  (Luke 13: 31-35).

On June 16th, 2012, Nik Wallenda walk into history on a hire wire as he walked over the rushing waters of Niagara Falls without a safety net.   Others have walked over Niagrara River, but no one has ever succeeded in walking 200 feet above the falls itself.   When Nik reached the other side custom agents were waiting on him.  “Passport, please!” agents demanded.  Nik handed them his passport.   “What is the purpose of your visit, sir?”  Nik ansnwered, “To inspire people around the world!”  (http://abcnews.go.com/Entertainment/niagara-falls-high-wire-walk-nik-wallenda-fulfills/story?id=16584774).

Most of us would never dream of trying a feat like that, but the truth, whether we want to acknowledge it or not, is that sometimes our lives are filled with high tension, and can be like walking a tightrope.   To put it another way,  the music of our lives is often played out on the high tension strings of life.  Our lives are made up of many pushes and pulls in many directions, demanding our constant attention, time and effort.  

Several years ago, when my Father was dying of aggressive thyroid cancer, the Hospice worker handed the family some information to help prepare us for his impending death.   Part of the information that was shared with us is that my Father was now living in the pull of two worlds.  In the next days he would be making a transition from one world to focusing on the next.   He would pay less and less attention to what was going on in this world.  He wouldn’t care about what was on TV, the news, or even what was going on down the street.  The transition to the next life would be gaining more and more of his energy and attention.  We needed to understand this and help him make the journey as comfortable as possible.

It is not only at death that our lives must deal with the tensions of life and death; between what is and what will be, between what should be verses what really is, or between the life we want and the life we get.  When we don’t get the life we want, or we have to let go of the life we have, we grieve and suffer loss.  This is part of our lives, living in the world where we have much joy, which one day we must surrender to the powers that are out of our control. 

One thing that is most profound about the Bible is that tells us the truth about the world we all have to face.  The story of Jesus is also a story of a life lived in great tension, great grief and great sorrow.  Early Christians believed that Jesus fulfilled the ancient prophet’s understanding of suffering servant who would bear the sorrows of his people.  The prophet did not believe that this vicarious suffering would get rid of all our suffering, nor that he would show us how to live beyond all grief and pain, but the prophet believed that this suffering one would enter directly into the world we all know and experience too often, becoming a “man of sorrows, acquainted with grief” just like us.   The only difference is that he would not only suffer with us, but he would also suffer for us, bearing our sin and grief upon himself like a blameless lamb without a blemish (Isaiah 53.3).  

As Christians we understand this language as the language of our salvation and our hope of redeeming the grief we know, by the Savior who came to suffer, grieve, and pay the price for sin.  But the world still wonders and so do some of us.   We wonder about what good is all this talk about grief bearing, shared suffering, and sin carrying.  What good does it do?  And what good is the grief we have to endure in life that God doesn’t take away from us?  Why do we still have to live in such a world filled with the high wire tensions of good and evil, joy and pain, and right and wrong?  Remember the question in that popular 70’s song, when Burt Bacharach once asked: “What’s it all about Alfie?    That song still asks what many still wonder when they find themselves caught in the high tension moments of life: 
“What's it all about, alfie?  Is it just for the moment we live?
 What's it all about when you sort it out, alfie? Are we meant to take more than we give
 Or are we meant to be kind? And if only fools are kind, alfie, Then I guess it's wise to be cruel.  
And if life belongs only to the strong, alfie, What will you lend on an old golden rule?
As sure as I believe there's a heaven above, alfie, I know there's something much more, Something even non-believers can believe in.  I believe in love, alfie.  Without true love we just exist, alfie. Until you find the love you've missed you're nothing, alfie.  When you walk let your heart lead the way, And you'll find love any day, alfie, alfie.”

Using Burt Bacharach’s question, “What’s it all about?”, this text requires that we ask this of Jesus.  “What’s it all about, Jesus?”  Our text contains two great tensions playing out in the life of Jesus.  Do you see them.  On the one side, Jesus is being hunted down by Herod and others.  Strangely enough, some of those Pharisees, Jesus often found himself up against are warning him that Herod is out to ‘kill him’.  This is why Jesus is always on the move.  His messages of truth were getting him into more and more trouble.  Even his hometown people tried to throw him off a cliff.   Now, Herod wants Jesus dead to.  “Go tell that Fox for me”, Jesus says, that I haven’t finished my work, just yet.    We all know what’s coming.  We know the grief that the world will give Jesus, but we are not there, just yet. 

But the other tension in the story another kind of grief; not only the grief the world is giving Jesus, but it’s the grief Jesus has for the world.  We see it revealed as the focal point of this passage in verse 34: “Jerusalem, Jerusalem, the city that kills the prophets an stones those who are sent to it!  How often have I desired to gather your children together as a hen gathers her brood under her wings, and you were not willing!”  This very word from Jesus about the grief God has over this world, our lives and the situation we all must face every day, is the major headline of this text.   We all know more than we want to know about the grief we must be willing to face in order to have life, but what do we know about the grief God has to face.  In this text, Jesus has not only come to bear our grief, but he’s also come to share about God’s grief.

Before we try wrestle with the meaning of God’s grief over this world, let stop and reflect for a moment about what this means.   Having a mental picture of Jesus weeping or God grieving is not what we normally carry around in our head.  When I once took my G.I. Joe doll and crafted into a crucifix, with Jesus bleeding and hanging on a cross, my Father looked at me and said Jesus is now resurrected and no longer hanging on that cross.  I wanted my Father to bless my effort, but evidently he did not what that image to have the final.  He wanted me to see Jesus as now victorious over sin, not still suffering under sin.  I got the picture.

But the image of a grieving and suffering God is still important, even though we do live in the hope of resurrection.   The image of God grieving is important because there is still a lot of pain, suffering and grief in this world.   The glorious resurrection of Jesus did not get rid of the great tension in all our lives.  Even though Jesus lives, we still suffer, we still hurt, we still suffer loss, and we still must grieve over how things are.   Whatever the gospel wants us to know about the good news, the good news must still be preached in a world of very bad news, which still grieves God too. 

But this image of God grieving over what goes on in this world is not the usual one we think about.  I think Julie Adkins is right to say that the God we often carry around is our heads and hearts is more like the God Jonathan Edwards imagined in his great sermon, “Sinners in the Hands of an Angry God?”  In that sermon preached in the early 18th century, the graduate of Yale, spoke of how people are like insects compared to God.  We are much like spiders, spinning our webs to construct our world, but we are oblivious to the fact that our lives are really in God’s hands.  In this life, we are all much closer to fire of Hell than we realize, Edwards preached.   It is God who holds us up by a thread, and if we sin, we could make God angry enough to drop us into that fire so we will fry in the flames.  That’s a very powerful, unforgettable image.  It’s no wonder that when people first heard it they were falling out of the pews and running down the aisles to be saved.   With this image of an angry God, Edwards literally scared hell out of a lot of people. 

There is certainly a truth to be understood in his image of God’s anger about sin and the threat of hell.  Our lives are much more dependent upon God’s grace than we could ever realize.  But while there is truth that God is angry about sin, it is not good theology, says Jesus, to carrying around in our head that God is angry with us.  God is hurt, God grieves, and God even suffers with us in our sin and for our sin, and God will even hold us accountable for our sin, even allowing us the free will to kill preachers, prophets, which will bring judgment, hell, death and destruction to us, if we persist and are unwilling to change.  Jesus wants us to know that God is much less angry with us, than he grieves over us.  “O Jerusalem, Jerusalem, you that kill the prophets I sent…  How often I have desired to gather your children together, as a hen gathers her brood under her wings, and you were not willing!”   It is only after we read those tragic words, “and you were not willing!” that we finally come to the terrible pronouncement of judgment: “See, your house is left to you.”    Some translations, add the word “desolate” to clarify the meaning that, ‘what you get is what you deserve.’  This is not what makes God angry enough to get you, but it is what makes God grieve over what we humans continue to do to ourselves.”

Thus, the first truth of this passage is that Jesus wants us all to see how and why God grieves over us.  Just as God grieves over the impossible situation of self-destruction coming to Jerusalem, God still grieves over the evil, the sin, and the situation of our world as we too, bear the weight of what we too often do to ourselves.   Just as Jerusalem should have lived up to its name, city of shalom, or peace; it didn’t.  Instead it had become a city of pain and provocation.  But this is not just the history of Jerusalem, even up to this day, this is the unfortunate story of our world, even today.  We all live is a world, like the garden of Eden, which has so much promise, so much potential and so much possibility; but to get to this we still have to deal with so much pain, so much heartache, so much stress and so much struggle.  We all know how much hurt and pain is involved in the possibility and potential giving birth to life, and God does too.    How God ‘wants’ it to be different, to gather all his children together and to protect them all.  God is so willing to bring about a different world, but the world is not willing, and so we keep grieving, and so does God. 

During the terrible Nazi time, when so many innocent Jewish people were suffering and dying unjustly in the incinerators and concentration camps,  Elie Wiesel recalls in his book, The Night, how one innocent child did not quite die quickly and continued to hang, and hang, and then struggled and cried out for help, and all those others waiting for their own death, had to listen to his cries.  Finally, in that dark place, someone was heard to cry out, “Where is God?  Where is God?  If there is a God in heaven, where is he?  Why won’t he come to help us?   After a deafening silence, another desperately and perhaps even sarcastically answered, “There is your God, there is your God, he is dying on the gallows!” 

This image of God suffering and grieving with us is an image Jesus wants us to hold firmly in our minds.  While God does get angry over our sin, God is more angry and hurting for us, than he is angry at us.   This is the image Jesus wants to put into the hearts and minds of the people of Jerusalem and it is still the primary image of God that we should carry around with us.  God grieves over the evil that happens, like the evil at Columbine, Nickel Mines, Aurora, or Sandy Hook.  God grieves over the evil that happens in our own worlds, in our families, our communities and even in our churches.  If God is angry, it is not because he is angry at us.  He is a grieving God, who is still ‘acquainted with our grief’ and ‘bears our sorrows’.  He sees what is, and it grieves him as much or more than it grieves us.

The second important message about God’s grief, which we should take from Jesus, is not only about the evil that humans do to themselves and to each other, but God also grieves over the good we don’t do for ourselves or for each other.   What we must understand is that Jerusalem has not only become a city so bent on evil that it will kill anybody who tries to bring change, it has also become city completely unwilling to change.    This is graphically at the center of Jesus image, when he grieves, “O Jerusalem, Jerusalem, ….how I would gather your children like a hen gathers and protects her own, but you are, in a lack of a better word, ‘unwilling!’   It is this ‘unwillinginess’ accept the truth that brings God great grief.  It is not just what people do wrong, but it’s also our unwillinginess to change and do what needs to be done.       

Several years ago, when I was a pastor in Shelby, we had a missionary couple come and speak to our congregation.  They had spent 30 years plus on the mission field and were now back in the U.S. to retire from their work.  I wanted to asked them one question: “What is the difference in churches of America now, than churches you 30 years ago.  What difference to you see?  They both answered with one word: “repentance”.  They said, we do not feel any real seriousness about change, repentance or about sin, which we used to know in the churches.  

We certainly do see reflected in much of our culture, as well as in our churches, we see a very stubborn resistance to any form of challenge or change that appears from any kind of differing point of view.   Whether it be about differing religious viewpoints, differing political viewpoints, or differing perspectives or lifestyles, we, it is becoming more the rule, than the exception, that we will be intolerant of each other.   We live in a world of growing extremes, impossible compromise, and dog eat dog politics.   Where all could lead us, is the same place it lead Jerusalem, to a place where both religion, politics and community were so different from each other than all where ‘unwilling’ to change to help the other or in the name of God.   Our unwillinginess to change quickly leads to an inability to change, and that will, in the end, lead to a world situation that grieves God and will bring grief to us all.   Without a willinginess and openness to hear, to understand, to accept, to repent or to be with and for each other instead of against each other, we end up in a city or a world that has no hope.  It is our constant ‘unwillingness’ to change for good, for God and for love, that still grieves God.

The final message about God’s grief is the strangest of all---at least it is to those of us who believe and trust in God.  In this final angle of Jesus word about God’s grief, we must finally face not only a God who grieves over the evil in the world, and the God who grieves over the good and needful things we are unwilling to do, but Jesus also wants us to imagine the strangest picture of God of all.  We are asked to imagine that there is something that God grieves over because can’t do it, at least not yet.  It is much easier to believe in a God who is able to fry us all in Hell than to imagine a God who has his hands tied when it comes to dealing with all this grief we have to face in this world---the suffering, the pain, the evil and of course, death.   The very last person most of us would want to trust, is the one who appears powerless instead of all-powerful, isn’t it?   What good would it do to imagine there is something that God grieves about because he can’t do anything about it?  What kind of God is it, who has the power and knows what needs to happen, but does not make life turn out differently than it does?   
It is the greatest question of our faith, isn’t it?  It he right there at the middle of our faith, suffering on the cross, unwilling to save his own son, that Jesus also had to accept.   “My God., My God, why have your forsaken me?”   This is the feeling and the question none of us can fully answer and don’t want to have to face, but we will.  Someone put this question this way: How can a God who is all powerful also be all loving, when he lets all this evil continue.   Why doesn’t this God who loves us, who has all power, honor and glory-- why doesn’t he do something different?   Why does life have to seem as if God has forsaken us?

If we are honest, none of us who believe in God know the full answer such a question.  When people suffer and when we suffer, sometimes the best answer is to be silent, to wait, to hold on, and to have faith.   Job didn’t know the answer to his suffering, and God even told Job that if he was told the answer, he still couldn’t understand it.   Jesus does not give us all the answers about evil, sin, and suffering either.   What Jesus tells us is all Jesus can tell us, for now.    What Jesus tells us, is that God grieves and has the power to make turn out different, as he has the power to protect us.  Just like a mother hen, God has the will and the power to protect his children.   He has this power to gather us together and shield us from so much evil, but most are unwilling to come to God in this way.  This is what grieves God the most. 

But this truth begs one final question: What kind of power does a hen have against a fox, against a hawk, an eagle or against a hungry raccoon?   Of course, the hen does not have any power to stop the predators from coming and taking her children, unless the chicks run to her for cover.   But if they will come to her, she will fight to protect them, even to her own death.   Why would a mother hen do something like this?  What kind of power is this, really?  It is not the power that will stop everything bad from happening, but it is still the power that makes life worth living, and the power that turns the worst grief into grief that we too can bear.  This is the power that Burt Bacharach sung about to Alfie.  It is the power that caused Jesus to weep and grieve over Jerusalem.  It is the power that God has change us all, and this world too, if we will come to him.  This is the greatest power that still transforms the worst the world can put against us---the power of God’s perfect love.   Amen.      
  

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