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Sunday, March 4, 2018

Love with Questions

A Sermon Based Upon Genesis 18: 16-33, NRSV
By Rev. Dr. Charles J. Tomlin, DMin
Flat Rock-Zion Baptist Partnership
March, 4th 2018

Unique to human life is our ability to raise questions.  While Science has been able to determine how certain animals feel, love, think, and have similar human-like behaviors, only humans ask questions.  The ability to ask: Why should I live?  Why should I live rightly?  Why should I love?  These are the most necessary questions to keep us human.  Even though we don’t always agree on the specifics, our ability to ask is part of what makes us human.

We see human questioning arise almost immediately in the Genesis story.   When the Serpent came to Eve in the Garden, it used the human capability to pose questions to lure humanity into to doubt and disobedience:  “Did God really say, when you eat of this fruit, you will die?  Continuing with his twisted logic he suggested the wrong answer: “You won’t surely die, but your eyes will be open, and you will be like God.”  

The lesson Adam and Eve learned the hard way, which is a lesson we all learn, was that the human capability to question anything could lead us to question everything.   This could be a step too far; such as when a teenager while developing their own identity, questions the sincerity of their parent’s love.  Perhaps the most important safeguard we have to keep us from losing our head is our heart.  When we love, questions can remain constructive, healthy, and part of human maturity, rather than turn unhealthy and destructive. 

 SHALL I HIDE FROM ABRAHAM….?
The personal and loving relationship Abraham and God had with each other should help us understand the strange story before us today.   Here, it seems that Abraham is raising some serious questions about God’s own personal judgment. 

How can we understand a mere mortal questioning the ways of an eternal God?    Well, for one thing, we need to understand just how close God and Abraham were to each other.   A couple of times in the Bible, once in the OT book of Isaiah, and another time in the NT book of James,  Abraham is referred to as ‘a friend of God’.  The whole idea of ‘friendship’ implies intimacy, transparency and relationship. As you study Abraham’s life, you will find some of the most personal and revealing stories in the entire Bible.   So, rather than jump conclusions, we need to consider that in the first place, God was allowing Abraham to enter the most intimate thoughts of God.   God is allowing Abraham deep into God’s own heart.   But why?
    
Jewish scholar James Kugel observed that the way Abraham, and other patriarchs related to God is very different from how God is viewed later in the Bible.   This “God of Old”, as Kugel described him, is a much more human like.  Abraham’s God is relatable, relational; maybe even touchable.  This God of Abraham thinks out loud, reasons and talks to himself, appears on earth like any other human being, he wrestles with people, becomes disappointed, angry, shows up unannounced, then walks away like any other person.   This God shows up just when you need him, and sometimes even when you don’t.  But before you people can get too close to him to make him a ‘special buddy’, this God is gone, as mysteriously as he came.  

The conversation going on here is perhaps one of the most fascinating of all.  It just doesn’t fit our normal understanding of God.  The text tells us that after Abraham’s three male visitors revealed Sarah’s pregnancy test, Abraham walks with them along the way.  They were looking in the direction ‘toward Sodom’, the home of Abraham’s nephew lot.  As you recall, Abraham had fought a war against 5 kings who had once threatened Sodom.  Abraham won the war and rescued Lot and his family.  In doing so, Abraham became the king of Sodom’s protector.  But now, something has drastically changed.   God reasons within himself: “Shall I hide from Abraham what I am about to do” (17)?

We are told that God has heard the ‘outcry against Sodom and Gomorrah (20).’   This ‘outcry’ pointed to the seriousness of ‘their sin.’   God figures he must let Abraham in on his divine intentions.   It’s a good idea to inform Abraham since someday ‘Abraham will become a great nation’‘all the nations will be blessed in him’ (18) and Abraham has been chosen to ‘keep the way of the LORD’ by ‘doing righteousness and justice (19).’ In other words, God wants Abraham to know that righteousness and justice are not happening in Sodom and Gomorrah. 

God’s openness with Abraham is something we just don’t see that often, even in the Bible.   God is treating Abraham like a prophet, though even the great prophet Isaiah described Israel’s God as one whose ‘ways are higher…, and whose thoughts are not our thoughts’ (Isa. 55:9) and also, he declares that He is  ‘the God who hides himself’ (Isa. 45:15).  But contrary to Isaiah’s vision, Abraham is having face to face conversations with ‘the LORD’.   Not much later in the Bible, Moses was told that he can’t see God’s face and live (Exodus 33:20).  Even during the time of King David, God has become even more distant, and  unapproachable, so that when someone accidently touched God’s holy furniture, they are struck dead (2 Sam. 6:7).  Even in New Testament times, it is still said that “It can be a fearful and terrible thing, to fall into the hands of a living God” (Heb 10:31).

So, what changes all this?  Why do we move from a God who appears as a human visitor, having face to face, intimate conversations, to having a more distant vision of an eternal God who seems distant, aloof, far away, and we can’t see or directly talk to, unless we are dead.  You might think it should be the other way around---with God getting easier to relate to than harder. Christians also, only approach Israel’s God through the ‘name’ of Jesus?  Why?

When I was growing up, we had an interim pastor who told us how he used to walk in the woods and having real, verbal, audible, conversations with God, like Abraham did.   He said that God was so real to him, that he could actually hear his voice.   Now, I was a teenager at the time, and this bothered me quite a bit.  I was learning how to pray and talk to God myself, and was trying to take prayer more seriously, but I never had heard God’s voice.   Was there something wrong with me?  Was my faith not strong enough?   Had I not really learned all the right ways to pray?   It seemed that all my conversations with God were one sided.  The preacher went on to say when we got the sin out of our lives, we too could hear God’s voice.

Perhaps the Preacher had good intentions, and was partially right.  But I think his very literal explanation of what it means to relate to God took me down a ‘primrose path’.  Most people who say they actually hear God’s voice today are in mental institutions   I don’t think that that preacher meant that kind of ‘voice’, but perhaps we sell both the Bible and the human mind short, and this story too, if we only look at this as a normal human-like conversation.   The conversation and relationship between God and Abraham just may not be that different from our own capability to relate to God today.   

We don’t have to take this conversation of Abraham in a strictly literal sense, to appreciate it, or take it seriously.  The story is told in a very simple way, with ideas, we all can understand: even children too.   When adults read ‘Bible stories’ to children, they seldom look at them the same way our children do.  Children listen to the story just for the story, but adults listen for the truth in the story.  We don’t get stuck with whether Jonah was swallowed by a whale or big fish---because the story is about prejudice, not fish.  We don’t get stuck on God making a deal with Satan to tempt Job, because the story is about the suffering of the righteous, not God making a deal bet with the devil.  We also don’t get stuck on Adam and Eve talking to a snake or about Balaam’s talking donkey either.  Mature adults don’t get stuck on arguing about where the ark is parked, or where empty tomb was, or whether this or that cave in Bethlehem actually is where Jesus was born.  It’s the truth of the story we are after.  

Whether or not we prove everything in life will never be as important as living the truth we already know.  I once knew a mentally handicapped lady in my home church.  She was a sweet adult lady who had the emotional intelligence, but the rational intelligence of a scientist.  She could figure out anything and everything.  But people often felt uncomfortable around her.  By always analyzing, figuring, and thinking through everything literally, you couldn’t have a normal conversation with her.   You didn’t want to hurt her or her parent’s feelings, but when she came up to you, arguing some point, you wanted to run.   That’s how it is when people always read the Bible with strict literalism, always trying to prove this or that happen, betting their life on proving all the details, rather than trying to live what we know is true.   Reading the Bible should be like fish; we eat the meat and leave the bones for scholars to chew on and pray they don’t choke.     

Still, even if we take this conversation between Abraham and God seriously rather than literally, it raises questions raised all through the Bible, which are never fully answered.  These are the kinds of questions all people of faith still live with, if they take God seriously.  In this story, the truth is that Abraham takes some of his deepest questions about God, to God.  This question is not, does God exist.  No, the even greater question is rather, is God fair?  How is it that this God who has been revealed as compassionate, merciful, redemptive, and righteous, is also a God who judges, condemns, and punishes sin with death?   In the biblical revelation, you can’t have a true God worth anything that really matters, unless God has both angles of divine and human truth.   Biblical revelation declares that God is kind and loving, but it also declares that God is holy and just.  “…I will be gracious to whom I will be gracious, and will show mercy on whom I will show mercy…”  The problem with a merciful God, is that because God is God, he reserves the right to choose ‘to whom’ he will be gracious and merciful.   That’s the question. 

WILL YOU ALSO SWEEP AWAY THE RIGHTEOUS ….?
The heart of Abraham’s questioning is where most of our great questions arise.   Our problem is seldom ‘what will happen to the unrighteous, the evil or undeserving people’ like Hitler, Stalin, Osama Bin Laden, or Saddam Hussein.  Remember the play about the Baptist president, Harry Truman: “Give’em Hell, Harry!”  We think some deserve it.   But other times we wonder what will happen to the ‘good’, ‘righteous’ and innocent people when God finally brings his justice, judgement and conclusion to life in the world.   What about the good people who’ve never heard the gospel?  What about the good Hindu, the good Buddhist, the good Muslin, or the good Agnostic or Atheists?  When people really don’t understand, grew up differently, or failed to understand what we understand, does this mean they are condemned forever?  This line of questioning was already there in Abraham’s mind way back then.

What I find most interesting about Abraham’s questioning, is that Abraham does not question God because he doesn’t trust God, but Abraham’s appears to be questioning God because he does trust and have faith in God, but still he is worried about people.  Abraham questions, because he is God’s friend.   He questions because he has faith, not because of any lack of faith.   God has called Abraham to ‘be a blessing’ to others, so why would God destroy a city if there are still ‘righteous’ people living there?   Again, Abraham’s question arises out of God’s blessings in the world, not because he is finding fault with God, or not finding fault in Sodom.

The ‘grave’ or serious ‘sin’ of Sodom and Gomorrah is not explained to Abraham, but later in the story (Gen. 19: 1-38), the things that went on at ‘night in the square’ (19:2) is presented in a very sordid event.   The angels wanted to sleep there and see for themselves, but Lot invites them to his house to distract them.   Before going to bed, we are told that the ‘men of Sodom, both young and old, all the people to the last man’ (19: 4), surround the house, demanding that Lot ‘bring his visitors out’ so that they can ‘know them’ (rape them).   Lot stands outside the door and ‘begs’ them ‘not to act so wickedly,’ even offering his own two virgin ‘daughters’ to them.   When the wicked men try to force themselves in, the angels grab Lot and strike the intruders with ‘blindness’.   Now the angels reveal to Lot that they are about ‘to destroy this place’ so Lot and his family had better ‘get out’ (14)
Most of us know that popular preaching has tended to focus primarily on the sexual sin that appears in the text, as the ‘men of Sodom’ attempted to ‘gang rape’ the angels while ‘all the people’ watched (19:4).   Interestingly, however, the ‘sexual sin’ was listed last on the list of serious sins the prophet Ezekiel made.  Ezekiel wrote that the ‘guilt’ of Sodom was more about ‘pride’, ‘excess food’, ‘prosperous ease’, and that they did not ‘aid the poor and needy’.  It appears to be the overflow of this kind of ‘materialistic’ lifestyle that Ezekiel says that ‘they were haughty, and did abominable things...’ (Ezek. 16:49-50).   While God didn’t approve of the sexual sins of Sodom, I don’t think any of these sins by themselves, brought judgement and destruction.  It was the combined sins of pride, excess, ease, lack of concern and arrogance that resulted in the abominable ‘crowd’ behaviors which was displayed as an act of sexual violence against the two angels, which was most offensive to God.  Thus, the men of Sodom are on the exact opposite side of God’s dealing with Abraham; displaying violence, aggression, and complete disregard for the ‘strangers’ in their midst, rather than displaying kindness and respect with the intent to bless.    

It was because of the ‘outcry against Sodom and Gomorrah’ that God informed Abraham that he was going to take a look.  But what does Abraham have to do with this?  Is it just because of Abraham’s nephew, or because Abraham had become ‘Sodom’s protector?  We are not sure whether or not Abraham knew anything about what was going on in Sodom, but we do know that Abraham knows God as just and righteous.   So, Abraham asks over and over, starting with a large number, to an ever smaller number, addressing the same concern to God: ‘Will you sweep away the righteous with the wicked?’    Suppose some ‘righteous’ people are found there, won’t ‘the God of the earth do right’ and spare them, or the city?   Besides Abraham’s own ties to Sodom, was Abraham only trying to ‘pray’ God out of it, so that Abraham look more ‘righteous’ than the God he worships?

But before you get all ‘stressed out’ over Abraham’s questions, we need to see the ‘truth’ in this story.   You can only understand a story like this through the whole story of Israel, through story of the gospel.   This is already hinted at in how God already answered his own decision to inform Abraham about all this in the first place.   Notice how God answers, “Shall I hide this from Abraham….” with “No, for I have chosen him….” (18:19).   God is letting Abraham question him exactly because God ‘chose’ Abraham for the sake of blessing, even eventually blessing ‘all the nations’ which ultimately will be bring salvation to whole human race.  Abraham’s desire for God to find a few ‘righteous’ points us right back to Abraham’s people, which includes Jesus’ people too.  By finding only a few righteous who are ‘the salt of the earth’, the whole outcome can shift.  

Thus, the story here is not really about whether God is righteous, but how God’s faithful, righteous, and caring God’s people can invite God’s redemption, reconciliation, and salvation to come into the world.  The drama going on here is indeed bigger than Abraham and Sodom, because what was happening within both of them, points us to the great saving purposes of God.  It is Abraham’s concern that helps us see, early on, God’s hidden desire to save. 
This whole ‘strange’ story can only be rightly interpreted with an eye on and a heart full of God’s compassion.   This is what the ‘promise’ to Abraham has always been about.  God did not choose Abraham for the sake of only choosing Abraham; but it was about choosing Abraham so that the ‘all the nations’ could be blessed.   In the same way, God did not just choose Israel because Israel was better than anyone, but God choose Israel because God’s wants his grace, mercy and love to spread to everyone.   In the same way,  God did not send Jesus in the world only to save the church, or to save an elite few, but God sent Jesus because “God so love the worldso that whosever believes him will not perish, but have everlasting life’ (John 3:16).   Even that great text which says that ‘there is salvation in no other name’ or the one which says ‘no comes to the Father except through me’, does not mean that God excludes everybody else, but it means that God sent his son ‘to save’whosoever calls upon the name of the Lord.’ 

To use the Christian faith as a ‘bully stick’ is like thinking that Abraham is questioning a God who doesn’t know what he is doing.  This story is not about questioning God, but it’s about God allowing Abraham to learn about God’s love through his questions.  As strange and unobvious as it might seem, this story, even the one about Sodom’s destruction, is also preparing us to understand God’s love.   As the New Testament letter understood, even in  judgement God ‘is not wanting any to perish, but all to come to repentance’ (2 Pet. 2:9).   Just like the cross of Jesus was not merely about human sin (which is true), but was mainly to point to God’s compassion and forgiveness, this story about Abraham questions and Sodom’s sin is about to show us God’s desire to save.

“And the LORD went his way….Abraham returned to his place….”
Now that we understand what Abraham’s relationship with God was about, maybe we can learn what our own relationship with is about.   It’s not really just about you.   It’s about God calling us to be His partners to make a difference as ‘salt and light’.    And the surprise of this text is that we begin this ‘difference’ not by changing the world, which we can’t do, but by being in honest prayer and conversation with God. 

There used to preaching professor at Fruitland Bible Institute, who was much beloved among preachers in western North Carolina.  Dr. Kenneth Riddings, taught a couple of my childhood friends, and a couple of Teresa’s uncles.   He didn’t teach me, but I did get to meet with him in several meetings.  To many ‘Brother Kenneth was the ‘prince of preachers’ who taught them not just how to be a good preacher, but also how to take care of themselves.  Once Dr. Riddings told how he used to work so hard trying to save the world, until he finally noticed  that as he tried to save it, it was getting worse, rather than better.  Finally, he told his young preachers that they’d better preach the word, and let God take care of saving the world.

Perhaps that’s what happens at the end of this story, when we read that ‘the Lord went his way’ and ‘Abraham returned to his place’ without all the answers.  What Abraham is being called to do is to trust God keep ‘doing righteousness and justice’, no matter what is happening around him.    Perhaps this is still the sign of true faith; when we can come to God with our questions and remain faithful, when they are, and even when they are not answered, as we wish.  Years ago, a lady came once came to a Baptist professor who was her pastor at the time.   She had questions about God along with some anger, and she felt guilty about it.  “What should I do with all these feelings?” She asked her professor pastor.  He responded “Go ahead and tell God about it, he can take it!” 

Can you understand a God big enough to ‘take it?’  When I used to talk to my Dad about the War, he would tell me how he fought in a special battalion attached to General Patton.  Then he told me that while the troops respected General Patton, but they loved and trusted most in General Bradley.   He was the soldier’s general.   

In his autobiography, General Bradley tells about boarding a commercial plane one day, wearing a business suit.   He began working on some important papers. It so happened that his seat-mate was a private in the U.S. Army, who was rather expressive. This private, who didn’t recognize the General, said, “Sir, we are going to be traveling together for quite a while, so it would be nice if we got to know one another. I’m guessing that you are a banker.” Bradley, not wanting to be rude, but wanting to get some work done, replied, “No, I am not a banker. I am General Bradley, head of the Joint Chiefs of Staff at the Pentagon.” After a slight pause, the young soldier said, “Wow, sir, that is a very important job. I sure hope you don’t blow it.” It is an understatement to say that we Christians have a vital role to play in America’s future and we dare not blow it.  (From James Moore, When All Else Fails…Read the Instructions, (Dimensions for Living: Nashville, 1993, p. 142, as quoted by Bill Bouknight at www.esermons.com).


Perhaps the greatest thing we can do for the hope of the world is ‘let God be God’ and not try to worry about God ‘blowing it’.   Like Abraham, we need to be praying, caring for each other, and even praying for and caring for strangers too, then we need to leave the rest to God.    Fred Craddock used to end some of his sermons with a line that reflects what Abraham did, after he left all this questions with God:   “Live simply, love generously, speak truthfully, serve faithfully, and leave everything else to God.”   Amen.

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