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Sunday, October 12, 2014

“Too Deep for Words”

A Sermon Based Upon Romans 8: 26-39.
By Rev. Dr. Charles J. Tomlin, DMin
Flat Rock-Zion Baptist Partnership
Sunday,   October  12th, 2014


“….The Spirit Himself intercedes for us with groanings too deep for words.”
                                                                                         Romans 8:26 (NASB 1995)

There are some things in life that cannot be understood with words.  

How do you explain a star?  How do you describe looking up at the Milky Way on a clear night without any clouds or street lights?    

Once, while living in Europe, I got up in the middle of the night in the dead of winter to observe a comet.   It was completely clear and cold, very cold.  When I looked up I saw more stars in the sky than I had ever experienced in my life.  There was more brightness than darkness, and there was no moon--- nothing but stars.  It was as if everything glistened.   There was no darkness at all.   The view was beyond words.

But maybe you can remember some other thing in your life that has had a similar impact upon you?   What about a particular sunset?
A sound in the wind caught your attention.
The rhythmic splashing of the waves on the beach.
The birth of your child.
The smell of grandma’s kitchen.
Your wedding day.
Your first kiss.
Your child’s first day at school.

Some things just cannot be explained, but can only be remembered and felt, but they cannot be explained.   It's profanity to try.  

Here, in today’s text, the apostle Paul is trying to find words to describe God's love.  Like the Spirit who speaks in a language “too deep for words” (v. 26), the love God reveals to us can't be explained, but can only be experienced.   Love has a language all it's own, which catches us up in the wonder, grandeur and glory of God.  

WHAT CAN WE SAY TO THESE THINGS
The bottom line for Paul in speaking of God’s love is that nothing,  which also includes nowhere  we can be or no one who is against us—no thing, no person, and no place, can ever separate us from God’s love.   And when Paul says nothing, he means it.   Nothing that ever happens, nothing that God has created, nor anything that we could ever imagine — real or unreal, can ever separate us from God’s love.  Nothing, Neinte, Nada, Nichts

And even though Paul does not specifically say it this includes, even we ourselves.  We also can’t fully separate ourselves from God’s love either.   For you see, most often, the greatest threat to knowing and living in God’s love is not what happens to us, but how we ourselves deal with, interpret or perceive what happens.   The big ‘who’ against us, the “who’, who will most often condemn us, and ‘who’ we always must conquer, can be our own feelings, our own ideas, or our own thinking.    This is why Paul prefaces what he says in this text by asking us to ask ourselves: “WHAT THEN DO WE SAY TO THESE THINGS?”  (v.31).

Haven’t we all known people who have taken great pains to do everything in their power to separate themselves from love?  These are the kinds of people who will avoid church, because they are afraid they might be changed.   These are the ones who put up a rough, gruff, hard exterior, to keep other people at a distance, because they fear love might just enter their hearts.   (We’ve probably done it too).  They might either refuse to work for love, or they might even work against God’s love coming into the world, into a life, or against love coming into the new age that is still coming, refusing to let God have his way, or only letting God’s way, be our own way (or the highway).  But again, with amazement in his voice, Paul says that no matter what we do, no matter what we think, we cannot be separated from God’s love.

Love must win, even if we don’t understand this at first.   Love will win, even if this world is now standing against it.  This is what Paul means, when he says the “Spirit helps us in our weakness” and even “intercedes for us”.   God’s love will and must win, that is, if we want it to---if we don’t refuse it within ourselves.   Even when our actions, or events, or people in the world, bring us in direct opposition with God and his love, God can bring good out of bad situations---with only one qualification---when we love him as he loves us.   For you see, God’s love only knows one boundary---the line we ourselves tell love not to cross.   Love cannot violate our space, unless it is freely received.  It can't force it's way or it can’t remain love.   

 Paul found out first hand, what it means to stand against love, but then to only to fully receive it.   He too did not know what love was, at first.  He was trying very hard to kill and eradicate the Christians who preached, taught, and lived God’s love.   He tried to stop love from spreading around in the world, but then love caught up with him.  Paul was not caught, convicted, or forever criticized for his hate, but Paul was caught by loved himself.   In one amazing moment on the Damascus Road, the Lord Jesus confronted Paul (then Saul), reminding him of God’s love, asking him to choose love, saying “I am Jesus, whom you are persecuting”  (Acts 9. 5).   And like Paul, we too can be, the greatest threat to God’s love in our lives.   But when Paul choose love, and to love, instead of choosing hate,  choosing to give, instead of taking, and to choose to go and obey (Acts 9.6) instead of staying back,  it was this unspeakable love overwhelmed him, gifted him, and called him to love God, to preach love,  and to love others, which included forgiving and loving himself, as God loved him.

KNOWING WE ARE LOVED (no matter what where, or who)
Maybe that’s the hardest thing to do; to really love ourselves as God loves us.  Maybe the most threatening evil in the world is not what’s out there, outside of us, or over there, away from us, but maybe it’s right here in what’s within us, or close by us.    Perhaps when Paul asks, “Who is to condemn us?”  (v. 35) and also asks, “What do we say to these things?” he recognizes that the greatest threat to any of us are the negative thoughts we have within ourselves?  

This was certainly true for comedian Robin Williams, wasn’t it?  Who knows what clinical depression was doing to his mind and heart?  Who knows what kind of negative thoughts or irrational fears were going through his mind when he learned he had disease that he could not conquer?  Maybe he was afraid people would not love him?  Maybe he was afraid that his life no longer mattered?  Maybe he just couldn’t think at all and everything went dark?   Even though you should never blame a person for having a mental illness, that does not take away that person’s need for love, or that person’s responsibility to find and receive love.

In the week right after Robin William’s suicide, Time Magazine Online linked me to a very interesting article written on a religious website, called Patheos.  The article caught my attention because it was entitled, “Christianity Can’t Replace My Zoloft!”   It was written by a Christian named Brandon Robertson, who admitted that he suffered with depression and was being treated with medicine, even though he was a Christian.  Some of the things Brandon shared in that article are important.  He said he was first prescribed meds for his depression his freshman year in college.   Brandon became a Christian at age 12, and was told that Jesus would free him of his anxiety, depression, and suicidal thoughts, but it didn’t work.  What people were telling him even brought him more anxiety and more depression.   Because of well meaning, but uniformed believers, his problem had become not only a mental problem, but was also a becoming a religious one.  

But as Brandon studied more psychology and theology, he learned something that has been liberating for him.  He said,  “Jesus hasn’t taken away his need for Zoloft “ and he has learned that "none of us will ever find full satisfaction or wholeness in this life."    He came to realize that that "Jesus didn’t come to make us happy nor to give us a better quality of life, nor to meet all our needs.   No, Jesus came to love us as we are, to give us a mission that includes our gifts and our brokenness."   Sometimes, Brandon admits, "it is his illness, his sickness, his needs and his struggle that enables him to have a message and a mission in the world, not only to learn to cope himself, but to help others grow and cope as well."  He said, "the message of the cross is not to offer us comfort and satisfaction, but it is to show us love, amplified in suffering, which calls us to join, not run from, the pain in this world. "  Brandon concludes,  “There isn’t a person in the world who has ‘perfect peace’ or ‘total wholeness’ and that’s a good thing.”  We would not care at all, if we didn’t all (even Christians) have problems like everyone else.   (http://time.com/3111329/christianity-zoloft/).

Brandon’s discoveries are certainly not answers that will enable a mega-church to grow, but they are answers that will grow a faithful and true church, reminding you and me, that no matter where you are, no matter how much you are struggling or how much you are suffering in this moment, that God is not against you, and God has not abandoned you.   For when Paul says that “nothing will separate him from God’s love”, he didn’t say this because he avoided all these threats, but he was suffering from them, right in that very moment.    For you see, in the Bible, as in real life, the Kingdom is never fully here, but is always coming, and never fully comes.  Do you know why?   We live in a very imperfect, fragile, and incomplete world, and we are not yet who, what or where we one day will be.   When we still suffer and hurt, even after coming to know Christ, we must not think for one moment that God is against us.  We must affirm love and we must affirm life, no matter what we are going through.

KNOWING HOW TO LOVE (no matter what, where or who)
Do you know why it is some important to affirm that we are loved?   Listen to the one more important thing Brandon Robertson said about Jesus and Zoloft.  “The truth is, I will probably always need my Zoloft.   I am not limiting God’s power to heal me, but I’m admitting that maybe ‘healing’ would be the worst thing God could do.” 

Do you know what would make somebody who struggles with an illness say a thing like that?   Brandon is saying that when you know that you are loved, no matter what you are going through, this is where you also learn to know how to love others, no matter what they are going through.   Brandon continues: “It’s in the falleness of this world, that God is most present.  It’s in our suffering that our motivation to work for the kingdom is fueledIt’s in our brokenness that faith give us hope for a better day.   And, perhaps most importantly, for the sake of love, I might add, that it’s also in our own loneliness, that we learn how to love and serve God and to love and serve others.   Only when we truly know how much we are loved, no matter what happens to us, will we be able to love and keep on loving, no matter what comes to us in life. 

Most of you recall how upset Real Estate Tycoon Donald Trump was when he heard the Samaritan Purse care workers infected with the Ebola Virus were coming to back to the U.S. for treatment.  Just before their return he sent out series of panicky tweets. July 31: “Ebola patient will be brought to the U.S. in a few days … KEEP THEM OUT OF HERE!” Aug. 1: “Stop the EBOLA patients from entering the U.S.” Later on Aug. 1: “The U.S. cannot allow EBOLA infected people back. People that go to far away places to help out are great—but must suffer the consequences!”

In response to Donald Trump and the Angst over helping the American Health Care workers,  Pennsylvania Baptist pastor John Piper,  composed a poem inspired positively by the Samaritan’s Purse workers (and their love) and negatively by Donald Trump (who had little love in his heart for anyone but himself).   The poem is called,  Ebola, Summer 2014:   
Today a thousand dead. And more   To die. A common ache, like flu,
Then nausea, a fever-soar,   A hopeless clinic interview:   “There’s nothing we can do.”
The bleeding has no bias. These:  A child, a chief, a friend, a nurse, Liberian, and Leonese,  From Guinea, Texas, taste the curse— And kindness, from the Purse.

Samaritans, six thousand miles From home and care, subdue their fears,
And wonder if a sneeze defiles,    Or if a healthy fluid clears      The curse. Perhaps their tears.

But now two treasured ones, struck down,      Contagious still with death—and love—Fly back to us, our joy, our crown,      A touch of grace, a gentle dove,      Yet through a plastic glove.

While in our land we see today     Another virus spreading, dumped, More deadly, in the soul. They say,      “Why bring them home?” Though you be stumped,    
This grace will not be trumped.              
(http://www.worldmag.com/2014/08/a_virus_more_deadly_than_ebola).

It doesn’t matter how big you are, how rich you are, how smart you are, or how important you are.   Like Paul told the Corinthians,  “If you don’t have, love: you have nothing!”   And when you have love, when you know God’s love, you are not only able to love others, you are able to receive God’s love, and then, nothing on earth, from heaven, or even in your own pocket, will ever separate you from such a great love.    Amen.

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