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Sunday, October 20, 2013

“Answered Prayer”

A Sermon Based Upon Luke 18: 1-8
By Rev. Dr. Charles J. Tomlin, DMin
Flat Rock-Zion Baptist Partnership
Sunday after Pentecost, October 20th, 2013

“Then Jesus told them a parable about their need to pray always and not to lose heart (Luke 18:1 NRS).

Honestly, I don’t watch much T.V. these days, except for news programs, documentaries, a few sporting events, and an occasional movie I rent on DVD.   There’s just not much on T.V. that is worth watching.  But recently, someone told me about a new show called “The American Bible Challenge” with guest host, Jeff Foxworthy.  The other night I watched and enjoyed it.   It’s a game show that tests the Bible knowledge of different teams of contestants who compete against each other for charity.   Frankly, some of the questions are quite difficult, even for students of the Bible.  On the first show I watched, 3 Jewish Rabbis, who claimed to know their Hebrew Bible quite well, were the first to leave.   A group Christians wrestlers won the grand prize, $20,000 for their chosen charity.   I guess it proves that wrestling is good training for Bible Study.

Different questions were asked during the show.  One of the most difficult ones was to try to pick three different names used for money in the Bible.   The choices were: Mina, Penny, Lira, Dinar, Gerah, and Rupee.  Which ones would you choose?   The correct answers were, Mina, Penny, and Gerah.  Did you know that the word “Penny” was in the Bible?   “Tough question, right?   But what really got my attention was another question they asked concerning people’s belief about the Bible.  They asked the contestants to work together as a team and write down the percentage they thought was right about this question:  How many percent of Americans believe that the streets of heaven are literally paved with pure gold?   The possible answers were 72%,  51%, or 28%.   Which one would you answer?  Out of the three teams competing against each other, two teams answered 51%, but the correct answer, which only the Christian wrestlers gave, was 72%.  

Most people take the Bible literally.  It’s very much the same when it comes to the theme of today’s text, answered prayer.   Most people believe that when you pray to God you will get an answer.   As I heard one preacher explain in my childhood: sometimes you get a no, sometimes a yes, and sometimes you get “you have to wait”, but there is always some kind of answer to our prayers.   Yet, here’s the problem with that kind of statement.  Prayer does not always get a direct,‘literal’ answer, at least not immediately, and sometimes not at all.   All of us have prayed prayers that did not get an answer or the answer we asked for, haven’t we?   We have prayed for sick people who did not get well.   We have prayed for jobs we never got hired for.  We have prayed for marriages that did not stay together.   We have prayed for children who did not turn out as we’d hoped.  And we have prayed and hoped for many others good things that have not yet come true.  So, if you take answered prayer literally, and you are honest about it, you must face some road blocks and dead ends.     

DON’T LOSE HEART….. AN ANSWER WILL COME?
Several years ago, Teresa and I were vacationing near Sunset Beach, N.C.   One day at lunch time, we decided to ride our Bikes from Sunset Beach to Calabash, where there was a small seafood hut.   All went well, except for on the ride back.  I decided we would take a shortcut on a dirt road.  As we road back into a wood and neared a house a large Doberman dog came up beside of Teresa.  He didn’t bark, but he stayed close on her heal, marching like a sentry.  He was so close, she felt the dog’s breath.  Another Doberman, which was tied up, was barking in the distance.  It was nerve racking.  I encouraged Teresa, as she frantically cried out for help, “Keep on Riding”, “Look straight ahead”.  Don’t look him in the eyes.”   After we finally got past the home, the dog stopped following.   We got through it, or should I say, she got through it.   Then we came to a dead end in the road.    There was nothing but swamp ahead of us.  We had to turn around and got back.  It was one of the few times in my life, I became more afraid of my wife than I was that Doberman Pincher.  I don’t remember whether how we prayed, but we were both praying, “God, please help us get by that dog without getting eaten alive!”   We proceeded ahead and we heard the Doberman that was tied start barking in the distance.  We expected the other Doberman any moment.  But for some reason or other, it did not come.  This time, thank God, we cycled by without our Doberman “tour guide.”   I still haven’t heard the end of my decision to go down that road, but at least for now, I’m still alive, thanks to my wife, not just the dog.

In our text today, if you liken prayer to the journey of riding down a dirt road being accompanied by a Doberman Pincher, most of us can tell some story about coming to a ‘dead end’ and having no place to turn.   It is this ‘dead end’ place that Jesus is concerned about when he told this story about the Widow and the Unjust Judge.   This Widow faced one dead end after another.   She kept coming to the Judge to get a hearing, who instead was like that Doberman Pincher, completely without concern for her or her situation.   Jesus even tells us that the Unjust Judge ‘neither feared God nor had respect for people’.   He really was a ‘mad dog’ judge.   Jesus wants his disciples to know that this is how unanswered prayer often feels.   In this image of the Unjust Judge, Jesus is putting unanswered prayer on the “hot seat.”    Having such a biting response to our prayers even makes God seem unfair, and makes many prayers seem not worth praying.    We pray and expect answers, but we end up on at a dead end dirt road.   If we go back that way again to pray once more, it’s as if a Doberman Pincher God is waiting to pounce his ‘no’ or ‘wait’ upon our dire situation, so why go at all? 

To people who feel this way about prayer, Jesus surprisingly gives the interpretation or moral of his story, even before he tells it.   He has urgent good news.  He wants people to know why they ‘need to pray always and not to lose hope’.   Even if there is no answer, and even when it seems there will be no answer, and even if the lack of answer makes God looks unfair, Jesus still says we should pray anyway, and ‘not lose heart’.    

This is really a hard true reality to face, isn’t it?   But sometime or other we all have to face the ‘music’ of unanswered prayer.   In the comedy film, Bruce Almighty, with “Bruce” being played by funny man Jim Carry, Bruce comes to God telling him hard life is and complains again that God doesn’t understand because God has a much easier job.   God, who is played by Morgan Freeman, decides to prove to Bruce that being God is not as easy as he thinks, so he allows “Bruce” to be ‘God’ for a while.   One of the funniest moments comes when Bruce keeps getting prayer requests through emails and has an impossible time answering them all, without making a mess of the world.  The point of the movie is that it’s not easy to balance what people ask for and what people and the world truly need.   We can all understand that difficulty, can’t we?  We understand that when the doctor tell us Mama’s body can’t get better because bodies are made to wear out.   We understand that sometimes we can’t get a certain job, because someone else needed a job too.  And we even understand that God can’t give us everything we ask for, because getting everything we want is not always what we need, nor what life is about.

Answered prayer is not as easy as it seems.   Someone has said that you don’t understand prayer, unless you have ever knocked on a door and gotten bloody knuckles (Fred Craddock).   So with the difficulty of answered prayer put before us in the Widow who keeps on going to this judge and is not being heard, why would Jesus still dare tell his disciples ‘to keep praying always’ and “not lose heart”?    Why, in spite of the all difficulties of answered pray, would Jesus still believe that when we pray, the answer will one day come?   How can God answer every single request that has ever been asked?   How can God answer every prayer when it sounds as improbable as it seems impossible?  

DON’T LOSE HEART….WHEN THE ANSWER DOESN’T COME
What might help us understand Jesus’ confidence in answered prayer is that this is not the first time Jesus has suggested that our prayers will be answered.   If you remember, back in Luke, chapter eleven, the disciples came to Jesus asking him to teach them how to pray.   Jesus grants their request by giving them a model prayer, which we all know today as the Lord’s Prayer.   In this prayer Jesus teaches his disciples what they should pray for.   Jesus gives his disciples a list of things they should pray for if they want their prayers to be answered.   Interestingly, when you read through the list of prayer requests in the Lord’s Prayer you don’t find the most familiar prayer topics.   Things like, as memorized in the King James Version, “Hallowed Be Thy Name” and “Thy Kingdom Come, Thy Will Be Done” don’t get on most of our prayer lists, do they?   We make our own prayer lists with needs and names on them that we want and wish to be healed, helped, protected or encouraged, but as far as I can tell, Jesus never modeled any kind of prayer like this.  The prayer Jesus modeled looked very different with a very different kind of agenda.  Even when we get to the more personal part of the model prayer, Jesus only lists the most basic needs like food for “daily bread”, granting and receiving “forgiveness”, and the need to be led away from temptation and evil.   Most of us expect exactly the opposite.  We pray for “all you can eat”, for revenge on our enemies, and for a ‘good time’ that might take us to the very edge of evil.  Have we ever thought about the fact that maybe part of the reason we don’t get what we pray for is because we are not asking for the right things in the way Jesus taught? 

Let’s consider more of what Jesus says early on about answered prayer.   After Jesus gives us the list of things we should pray about, he then gives his story about the Friend at Midnight, who tried to get his friend to get up in the middle of the night and give him some bread.   The friend does finally get an answer, as he finally gets the bread, but it’s not because they were friends, but because he kept persistently and relentlessly knocking.   But remember again, the midnight visitor was not asking for a meal fit for a king, but he was asking for ‘daily’ bread (or nightly bread).    Jesus then goes on to tell his disciples ‘to ask, seek and knock’ which in the original language means, ‘ask and keep on asking, seek and keep on seeking, and knock and keep on knocking.”   When Jesus says “….everyone who ask, receives, who seeks, finds, or who knocks, will have the door open,” he is still not making true prayer a ‘blank check’ to get what we want.  As we all know, when a person is dying and praying to live, that prayer cannot always certainly or immediately be answered.   When a prayer is asked for all kinds of other personal things for specifics we want or need, those prayers can’t always be answered either.  God’s agenda for answered prayer is not answering our own personal agendas.   But the kind of prayer that Jesus promises will always be answered is made clear in this text.  In his closing comments, Jesus likens God’s desire to give us good gifts, like a desire of a good Father, who will only give good gifts to his children.   Like that ‘good Father’ God only gives the best things, but this does not mean he will give us anything and everything we ask for.   No, it can’t mean that, and then Jesus clarifies for all of us, that there is there is only one answer the Heavenly Father will always give, the ‘gift’ of the Holy Spirit (Luke 11:11), which is nothing less than the gift of God’s self.     

Are you disappointed?   Prayer is not always what we make it out to be, is it?   Prayer is not always a “Sweet Hour of Prayer”, but it can be praying with bloody knuckles where we end up with only one answer: God is with us.   Jesus made this very important clarification about prayer early on, and most of us still don’t get it?   But what we need to understand most about prayer that God does not answer prayers like some ‘Bruce Almighty’ getting all kinds of different email requests.   Prayer is not like that at all.   You really have no guarantee anywhere in the Bible of getting everything you pray for, unless you pray for the things Jesus taught his disciples to pray for, and to pray about. 

For you see, prayer is a discipline, not a luxury.   Prayer is not something as simple as one, two, three, or something you can market or sell with a formula for success.   The Diet Industry likes to market quick fixes of diet plans and pills, but you can’t market a true diet, which is a lifestyle choice of moderation and exercise.   Few want a diet plan like this, and that’s why only those who understand what a real diet is, lose weight.   In the same way as learning about the discipline of weight loss, part of the discipline of true prayer is learning both what to ask for, and what not to ask for.  Remember the Psalmists first line in the most famous prayer of praise in the Hebrew Bible: “The Lord is my Shepherd, I shall not want”.   Here is an expression of how David learned to pray.   As a new another translation puts it, “The Lord is my Shepherd and Guide, I already have everything I need”.    That’s how David prayed.  That’s also how Jesus taught us to pray.   When we have the Lord, the great Shepherd, which is nothing less than the gift of the Holy Spirit, it is only then that we come to fully know what little else we really need.  When we learn true prayer, our prayer lists get shorter rather than longer.  Only by wanting God and by wanting what God wants, will we know the fulfillment of the promise of answered prayer.  

DON’T LOSE HEART….THE ANSWER THAT MUST COME
At the center of this story about ‘Answered Prayer” is not the answer that finally came, but the Widow keeps going, and going, and going back to the Unjust Judge demanding he do what is right, fair and just.  Again, the point is not, how the Judge finally answers, for he is never anything but a scoundrel.   The point is how this faithful, resilient, and resourceful widow kept on bothering him with what is right.   

Her story can never be reduced to the answer she gets or doesn’t get.   Her story is about who she is and what she does even when the answer doesn’t come.   She’s the kind of righteous, determined person who never gives up demanding justice, fairness, and righteousness, representing all the “chosen ones” Jesus also mentions, “who cry out to God day and night” (v.7).   In a fallen, broken, unfair world, people like her are the answer God has to bring to the world.  People like her are the kind of people who want what God wants.   She is the answer to the prayer Jesus taught us to pray, which says “holy is God’s name, God’s kingdom come and God’s will be done on earth…."    She is kind of person who is the answer to God’s prayer spoken in Jesus Christ.

Can we see ourselves as both the person whose determination to do the right thing is an answer to prayer?    Martha Coldwell was a fellow Baptist missionary who trained with me and served in Rwanda.  So, when the news of the terrible genocide in Rwanda came out in 1994, my ears perked up.   Martha, later told me she was out of the country when the terrible events happened; when that African nation descended into a dark madness, with the powerful Hutu majority beginning a systematic slaughter of the Tutsi minority.  Someone called that massacre "the fastest and most efficient killing spree of the 20th century." In one hundred days, the Hutus killed 800,000 Tutsis.”  (See Samantha Power, A Problem from Hell: America in the Age of Genocide, as cited by Thomas Hibbs, in The National Review Online, January 18, 2005).    Later, some of you may have seen the film, Hotel Rwanda, which shows Paul Rusesabagina, a hotel manager in the Rwandan capital of Kigali, unknowingly and accidently driving his vehicle over hundreds of bodies of those slaughtered and left dead in the road.   Paul himself was a Hutu, who promised to protect his Tutsi wife and the family he loved, and he also ended up finding the courage to shelter and save over 1,200 Tutsi people by hiding them in the luxury hotel he managed.

But Paul did not start out as a hero, or an answer to prayer.    As the horror built, Paul initially protested that there was nothing he could do.   But his reluctance was challenged by the steady beating of truth upon his door.  Alan Culpepper, a Baptist professor once said something like:  “To those who have it in their power to relieve ... distress ... but do not, the call of Jesus to pray day and night and demand God’s righteousness is a command to let the priorities of God's compassion reorder the priorities of our lives." (R. Alan Culpepper, The New Interpreter's Bible, Vol. IX, Nashville, Abingdon Press, 1995, 339). As Paul heard the knock and opened his heart, he began to see the horror and experience the shame. It was a truth he didn't want to admit; but in the end, his conscience prevailed and he acted to save as many lives as he could.  He was the answer to prayer.   He joined in the knocking on the door of injustice, hate, evil and wrong.

But, interestingly, Paul was not the only one to hear the beating on the door and to experience the need to reorder his priorities; it happened also to many viewers of the film.   And I think it happened especially in one telling moment.   About midway through the story, as the slaughter of the Tutsi people escalated in Kigali, Western reporters began to capture scenes of the genocide on tape.   Paul was heartened a bit, because he assumed the broadcast of such images would prompt immediate Western intervention. When a skeptical Western reporter expressed doubt, Paul was dumbfounded. "How can they see that and not intervene?" he asked. But the reporter had seen it all before. "More likely," he responded, "people will see the footage, say 'Isn't that horrible?' and then go right on with their dinners."   The most disturbing moment in that deeply disturbing film is that people often do just that.   Too often we see what is wrong, and we do not feel the shame or respond to bring about the answer for rightness, justice, fairness and the righteousness of God!

So, who are we in this parable of Jesus?  Are we more like the Unjust Judge who goes on ignoring the cries in our world, or are we like the woman who keeps on asking, seeking, and knocking, crying out and demanding that right be done, just as Jesus taught us to pray that God’s will be done, on earth as it is in heaven?   This widow woman, says Jesus, is who we all should be, not just a people praying on our knees, but a people out there beating the bushes and insisting on nothing less than God’s righteousness to be done in our world.

Let me just say, that if we are like the Unjust Judge, ignoring the truth of what we need to do, God has not given up on us.   The good news of this story is, that God wants us to be like this widow, wanting what God wants, --unrelenting, persistent, resilient and assertive.   God hasn't given up on us, even when we have acted as though we "neither feared God nor had respect for people."  And God works through us, when we, like the widow keep on crying out for and doing what is right.   People like her, are the answer to prayer.   They, and we are the answer to the prayer to all kinds of other widows, orphans, strangers and other sojourners of this world. If we will let the cry of the hurting break us, there is still hope for goodness, relief, reconciliation and fairness in our world.   Will we keep knocking and answering the door?  This is how all our prayers will be answered, and God’s too  (This final point is found in Robert Dunham’s sermon, “Whose Persistance” at Day1.org, http://day1.org/1064-whose_persistence.)

Today, Jesus is like the widow, saying to us: "Behold," says the Christ, "I stand at the door and knock." Maybe today you’ll open the door, or we’ll open the door together to do what needs to be done.  If we would, maybe,  it would be a  good day for everyone!  Amen.

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