A Sermon based upon Philippians 1: 1-19
By Rev. Dr. Charles J.
Tomlin, DMin
Flat Rock-Zion Baptist
Partnership
Second Sunday after
Easter, April,28th, 2019
There was a church secretary who took a most unusual phone call.
The caller asked if he could speak to "the Head Hog." Well, she
quickly defended the dignity of her pastor, and with an irate tone said,
"I want you to know that our pastor is held in the very highest esteem
around here, and we address him as Rev. H. C. Herald. Currently Rev. Herald is
not available to speak with you."
The man then responded, "Well, I am sorry. I just learned
about your new building program and my CPA recommended that I donate $1 million
to provide a good tax shelter for me." The secretary quickly responded,
"Wait just a minute, I believe I see the fat pig coming down the hall
right now."
When we care about each other, we can ‘kid’ each other. Years ago, Dale Carnegie wrote a best-selling
book, in fact, one of the best-selling books of all time, entitled ‘How to Win Friends and Influence People’. In that book he says the most important thing
about running a successful business, is how well we relate to people.
This relates well to church work too; maybe even more so. The church, is the quintessential ‘people
business’. So, the greatest way for a
church to be a church, that is to be ‘winsome’ and ‘influential’ as a church, is
to really care about people. And caring
about people starts when we really get along with and care about each other.
Today, we begin a new series of messages from the New Testament
book of Philippians. Philippians is one
of Paul’s most personal and passionate letters to one of the churches he
founded. Philippians is a joyous,
optimistic, happy letter that gets ‘up close’ and personal with people. That is quite ironic, since at the time the
apostle Paul wrote this letter he was sitting in a prison somewhere, probably
Ephesus, warmly remembering the people in his life.
‘I thank my God every time I REMEMBER
YOU. (v. 3)
Recently,
I had the honor of preaching back at a church in Shelby, N.C, where I had
served as pastor in the late 1980’s, just prior to going overseas. I got to see people I hadn’t seen in many
years, and we all spent time together, catching up with each other and sharing
memories. That was such a special time
together, and it made me realize more and more that ministry is much less about
what you accomplish, than it is about caring about and caring with people. The most important thing I did, was not
preach, but to get to ‘sit down’ and share stories of life past and life
present. Stories about surviving cancer,
about living alone, about recently retiring, about a child being ill, about a
daughter going off to college. Being
with ‘people’ is the work of the ministry.
People with people is what makes it all worth-while.
It is
the ‘joy’ of working with people that causes Paul to ‘pray with joy’ (4). Now,
that’s not always the way it is, with Paul or with us either. Sometimes, working with people can be quite
challenging, stressful, and depressing too.
“What do you love about your work?”
a business owner was asked. His
answer: people. “What do you hate about
your work?” His answer was also:
people. And it was sometimes that way
for Paul too. Just read 1 Corinthians. But here, in Philippi, Paul remembers a
church he has known ‘from the very first
day’ (v. 5) and it brings him warm memories, along with a deep sense of
joy.
When
I was at that church in Shelby, they had old photographs of the past; and it
one of those photographs, Teresa and I were sitting in the front of a ‘river
raft’, along with 4 other church members, getting ready to plunge down an 8 ft.
waterfall head first. If you could have
only seen the concentration, or was that ‘fear’ on my face. Today, I’d call it ‘terror’. But even now, God has turned that
‘terrifying moment’ into a joyful memory that I got to share with some
wonderful people who still have a special place in my heart. Oh, yes, when Teresa first looked at that
photograph, she asked, ‘Who was that handsome young man sitting beside of her
in the raft?’
In
this world, filled with so many new gadgets and preoccupations, it’s easy to
forget that the most important part of our lives is not the places we go, the possessions
we own, all the possibilities we have, but the most important part of life is
the ‘people’ we get to share and spend our time with.
Humans,
in a way more sophisticated than any other creatures on this planet, are
‘social’ animals. We are not made to be
alone. We cannot survive or thrive very
well alone. We were not made to ‘live on
an island unto ourselves’. As the Joan
Baez song goes, (one of the first songs I sang in High School choir based on
the 17th century poem of John Donne).
“No man is an
island, No man stands alone,
Each man's joy is
joy to me ,Each man's grief is my own.
We need one
another, So I will defend,
Each man as my
brother, Each man as my friend.”
“I thank my God upon every remembrance of
you."
(v.3) Every time Paul thought of the
people in Philippi, his song could have been: "What a fellowship, what a
joy divine…. When these precious people,
those sweet saints came to mind, an attitude of gratitude welled up in Paul’s
heart. People who loved and cared made up the
church. It was a church the Holy Spirit
produced. When people lived in
fellowship with God’s Spirit, people had a sweet, sweet, fellowship with each
other. Dwight L. Moody once said, "There are different ways of being together."
We can be rusted together by ritualism, frozen
together by formalism, linked
together by liberalism, or even chained
together by conservatism. But what we
should be is melted together by the
fire of the Spirit because we have a blazing love for the Lord and those Jesus
loves.
“…Because of your PARTNERSHIP IN THE GOSPEL (Phil. 1:5 NIV)
This
‘living’ love ‘in the Lord’ is not a self-centered love, but it is an ever-expanding
love that starts at home, but reaches out into the world. Paul writes: “I am happy because you have joined me in spreading the good news.” (Phil. 1:5 NIRV).
Paul’s
point is that Christian love is a reaching, enlarging, including, and embracing
love. If you live in fear of being with
others who are different from you, it is about your own weakness in faith
rather than theirs. The love of God is a
love that moves out toward the world, toward the neighbor, whoever that
neighbor might be. The heart of a true
Christian breaks when we, like recently, hear of a white man who was on trial
because he shot at a black teenager who simply came up to his door, after his
car broke down and needed to call for help.
You might understand caution with a stranger, but why did the man have
to shot toward him, while he was already running away?
Maxie
Dunnam, a Methodist evangelist, recalled the time thirty years ago when he and
his wife, along with their two small children, were driving from Gulfport,
Mississippi to his parents' home, about one hundred miles away. It was sleeting
and the road was becoming icy on that unusually cold night. It was close to
midnight out on a dark, lonely highway, when it happened. Their car stalled.
There
wasn't much hope of anyone stopping to help them at that hour of the night. The
children were getting colder, and Dunnam and his wife were getting anxious.
After what seemed an eternity a car came to a screeching halt beside them.
Maxie told the driver that their car had stalled, and without asking any
further questions, the stranger told them to get in his car. The stranger even
helped them with their luggage, and went out of his way to take them to a
friend's home in the nearest town where they could spend the night.
Dunnam
noticed the man's accent was different from his own. He obviously was not from
Mississippi. The man who helped the Dunnam family that night was David Ben-Ami,
Rabbi of Temple B'Nai Israel in Hattiesburg. A few months later Dr. Dunnam read an article
in the newspaper about the trials and tribulations of Rabbi Ben-Ami. His
troubles began when he befriended ministers of other faiths. The Rabbi visited
pastors who had been thrown in jail for demonstrating against racial injustice.
He befriended a white Presbyterian minister who had been involved in this
struggle for equality, and he had assisted in distributing turkeys to needy
Mississippi families of all races.
Rabbi
Ben-Ami's congregation was upset and had asked him to leave. Can you imagine a congregation asking their
Rabbi to leave because he, by example, was teaching them to love people? What was that congregation so afraid of? If you recall, Jesus was a Rabbi who was run
out of town for the very same thing.
What were the people in Nazareth so afraid of? Many good people today, who are in
Synagogues, in Churches, and in Mosques too, are good people, but are people
who live in fear of each other. What are
they, we afraid of? Is it about them, or
is it about us? (Maxie Dunnam, PACK UP YOUR TROUBLES (Nashville:
Abingdon Press, 1993), pp. 62-63).
A
reporter once asked a white teenaged girl in Philadelphia why she participated
in a riot to run a black couple out of her neighborhood.
"I
wouldn't want my kids to get to know the blacks," she said.
"Why?"
the reporter asked.
"Because
they might get to like them!" she answered.
That's
the danger, isn't it? There is so much fear, unfounded fear, in our world even
today. We see it in the Middle East, in Central America, in Europe, and we see
it in our own neighborhoods too. Recently I watched the story, July 22nd
on Netflix, which is the story of how a right-wing radical in Norway, just
before 911 in the U.S., terrorized Norway by exploding a Fertilizer Bomb at the
Prime Minister’s headquarters, killing 8 people, and then driving to a Summer
Camp to shoot and kill 85 children at a Summer Camp. Why did he do it? He believed that he was saving Norway. He believed that Norway was just for the
original Norwegians, and not for anyone else.
How
sad is such a narrow-minded, bigoted belief! Why can all people believe, and I mean really
believe, at least one truth that is found in all our Bibles, The Torah, the Old
Testament, or in Kor’an, and is also found in secular science. Why can’t we realize how we are all descended
from one mother and father. We are all part of one, big, human family? We are not Norwegian, German, French,
English, Russian, Asian, Greek, Arab, Jew, African or American. We are human.
We may not all be from the same tribe, but we are all from the same human
family; the family God loves.
Since
I’m adopted, and don’t know my ‘birth family’, my wife once considered giving
me a gift of having my DNA tested to discover my ancestry. After watching how general most of the
results are, she changed her mind. She
said she’d support me me doing it, but she now thinks its worthless. She thinks people who search out their
unique Ancestry are not using science or money most productively. She reasons, “Who needs to know who their
most recent ancestors are, when in the end, we all come from the same human
family”?
She
makes a good point. Benjamin H.
Alexander, Research Chemistry Professor at The American University in
Washington, D.C., notes that through molecular biology research and DNA
tracings scientists at the University of California at Berkeley and at Harvard
University have agreed that there was once a woman whom they call Eve who lived
approximately 200,000 years ago is the mother of us all. Research shows that her genes are found in
every human being living on earth today. Therefore, all six billion people on
the planet are blood relatives. This mutual Eve is the 10,000th great
grandmother of all of us. Don’t we need
to affirm that all humans have a common origin in God’s purpose?
However,
we read our own DNA, or however we interpret the Bible, the common truth in all
science and in every Holy Book, is that this earth will remain broken until
people realize our need to be reconciled with God and with each other. As followers of Jesus, we don’t believer
everyone must think or believe like us, but we do want every person to love, like
God loves us and God loves them. As
Christians, like Paul, we not only ‘remember’ warmly the love we share together,
but we also ‘share’ a love that burns for others, a love that reaches out and
unapologetically ‘joins’ and ‘partners’ with others to spread the good news
that Jesus is the Savior who loves.
It is
this ‘sharing’, this ‘partnership’ or this ‘fellowship’ (v. 5, 7) ‘in the good news’ of the gospel of
God’s love for the whole world, that brought Paul such great joy. Isn’t this what was so amazing about Saul
becoming Paul? Saul was a narrow-minded,
bigoted, prejudiced, Jewish Rabbi who murdered people who didn’t agree with his
own faith, but after meeting Jesus Christ in a vision, became a Paul, a Jewish follower of this
different kind of King-Jesus, who reached out beyond his own religion, and beyond
his own world, with a faith of love for all the world.
Should
this outward-reaching faith of love, which is based on God’s universal, global,
and world-reaching love, be our own joy, as a church, too? If we want to be a church of joy, we must be then
renew our own faith to focus on this God who does not just ‘love the Jew, but also
loves the Greek, the Gentile, the Arab, the Asian, and loves the whole world.
This
‘gospel’ we are called to partner around and share with the world is the ‘good
news’ to and for everyone who will believe.
It is a faith based on love, that declares trust in a particular God who
became flesh and died on the cross to sacrifice to prove his love for the whole
world because he ‘so loved’ this world.
This kind of particular God who ‘is love’, does not intend to negate other
religions, nor does he come to move against other faiths, but God’s love,
revealed in Jesus the Christ, magnifies and clarifies how God’s love can be
found in any religion and in any faith, and at the same time, can expose the
bad that can also be found hiding in any human religion or any faith, including
Jewish or Christian faith. What Jesus
did that is so universal is to love, like God loves, and his point was not to
destroy, but to ‘fulfill’, by revealing and renewing what was already universal
and most needed in all the world: love.
This
is the reason Jesus’ love isn’t just a love for few, but it is a love for all
people anywhere, everywhere, without condition.
If the faith of Jesus Christ is only reduced to being just for
Christians, or for only a particular kind of Christian, it then becomes a
smaller, lesser and self-centered love, not a bigger, greater, God centered
love. For when you put conditions on God’s love, or you limit Jesus’ sacrifice
for sins, you make yourself god, and you make room for hate. You make God small, not great, and you limit
God’s love to your own terms, rather than extending or enlarging a love that
forever belongs to God alone. It was a ‘partnership’
or ‘fellowship’ of ‘enlarging’ or ‘expanding’ love, a love big enough that it
could only come from God, that brought joy and gratitude into Paul’s heart,
even though, at the time, he was imprisoned for sharing and preaching that kind
of love. It was the hope that this
‘gospel’ of love ‘might abound more and
more’ (v. 9), because it was already becoming ‘clear to the whole palace guard and to everyone else’ too, as ‘Christ is preached’ (v. 18), out of ‘goodwill’ (v. 15) toward all, that
caused Paul to ‘rejoice’ and to ‘continue
to rejoice’ (v. 18).
“HE WILL CARRY IT ON TO COMPLETION…” (6)
Because
the ‘good news’ of God’s gospel is a about an undying, caring, sharing, and giving
kind of love, it is the kind of ‘love’ and ‘good news’, it is miraculous, amazing-grace
kind of love, that when you give it away, it also comes back to you.
Many
Christians, in these days of traditional ‘church’ decline, wonder how in the
world the church will survive? One thing
for sure, you don’t save, grow, or build the church by saving, growing, or
building a church, but you save the church by reaching how to help and bring
people to God’s salvation. Most
importantly, you don’t reach to them on your own terms, but you must learn to
reach out to them on their terms, in their struggles, in their understanding. This
is the problem many traditional churches are having today. They are trying to grow the church by
growing a church, when they should be reaching out to people in their situation
and condition of need, and letting God grow the church through those people who
will become partners in the gospel.
When
I visited Shelby, I got to share briefly with a former pastor, who had recently
been an associate pastor, and then returned to that church to become the pastor
of a large village church nearby. He was
trying to lead the church to reach out into its community, by using more
contemporary methods. But then, as
changes started to occur, he ran into resistance in the church; leaders who told
him that his focus should be on the church people, not on ‘them’ the outsiders.
I don’t
know the whole story, but what I do know is that either the church eventually asked
him to resign or he left. Fortunately,
the pastor’s wife has a very good job, and he had a way to stay afloat. Now, less than a year later, he has joined
the staff of one of the fastest growing, contemporary churches in Shelby. It was a church formed out of combining an old
traditional church and a new contemporary, church start. Now, my friend is the eldest of the 8 or so ‘pastors’,
he said. He had to even go out and by
new clothes, and shoes, so that he could try to fit into the younger culture of
that church. The church has recently
raised a million dollars, beyond their present budget, so they can focus, not
on themselves, but on continuing to reach out into the needs of their
community. The other church, that let
him go, continues to face a future of stagnation and decline.
That’s
a ‘sad’ story, that fortunately has a good ending for the pastor, but what
about the church where he left? Why are
people afraid to try new ideas? Why
couldn’t the church have done two things at once? Why did it have to either be that he pastor
focused only on the church, and not the needs of those outside of the
church? What was it not both/and, but
had to be either/or?
People
are afraid to let go, aren’t we? We are
afraid to let of who we are, what we have, what we do, in order to reach out to
where other people are. We are afraid to
become partners in this gospel that calls us to love, on God’s terms, at their
point of need. It is so much easier to
remain in our safe place. Isn’t that
what the Jewish community of Jesus’ day wanted to do? Isn’t that why the Judaizers wanted to take the
church backward, rather than forward?
Isn’t that why Paul had to keep facing riots, beatings, insults, and
prison. We need to remember that is wasn’t
the pagan world that kept attacking Paul, but it was the traditionally religious
who kept complaining to the secular authorities, so that the authorities had to
try to silence and stop Paul. They did
finally stop Paul, but there were others who came along beside of Paul and
continued to share the good news until the gospel finally got to us too.
But
here’s the question I want to close with:
Why are we afraid to ‘share’ and ‘show’ the gospel in new ways, when God
assures us, that he is also not finished with us either. Isn’t this the assurance Paul gave the
Philippians? Because they were
continuing to move forward into the world with the gospel, and were partners
with Paul in the gospel, they could be sure that God wasn’t finished with them,
and that they could be ‘confident’ that ‘he
who began a good work in them, would carry it on to completion until the day of
Jesus Christ’ (v. 6).
That’s
a beautiful promise, isn’t it? It
reminds us that when we move ahead in him to go out to them, but that he is still
not finished with working in us too. I wish
we could catch that kind of promise for us, too. It’s the kind of understanding that could help
us focus more on them, than on us, and find the promise of a future too. I once witnessed ‘how’ this kind of ‘confidence’
works and is contagious. Many years ago,
when I was visiting Wilmington, I visited Winter Park Baptist Church, which was
one of the first large traditional churches to risk focusing on outsiders, more
than themselves. The church was lead by
a former Newpaper reporter, who had recently become a Christian and a pastor
and wasn’t that far removed from those ‘others’.
I
visited the early service, and it was a very interesting, well-done contemporary
approach to worship. But what I noticed,
was when I looked around, that most of the people there were white-haired, like
I am today. I went up to one lady and I
asked, “Why do you come to this service?
Do you like the music?” The music
is not bad, but I didn’t come for the music.
I came because of the young people, who make me feel welcome and
young. It was if she was saying: They make me their grandma. They come for
advice. It’s here that I realize that God is not finished with me yet.
Isn’t
that what ‘sharing’ the gospel, such a wonderful task. It wasn’t us against them, but it was all
together, helping one another, reaching out to others, and loving one another. Isn’t that how God still gives us his promise
and his hope? Amen.