A Sermon based upon Ephesians 3: 14-21
Dr. Charles J. Tomlin
Flat Rock-Zion Baptist Partnership
July 29, 2012, 9th Sunday after Pentecost.
I begin with a story told by Brent
Younger, whom I must thank for most of this sermon.
From the house on the top of the hill,
you could see a field of ripe corn with the bean flowers that promise a good
harvest. The one thing the land needed was rain. All morning Manuel had been examining the sky,
"The water will come." During dinner the rain started to fall. Great
clouds came from the northeast. Manuel thought, "These aren’t just drops
of water falling from the sky. The big drops are ten cents and the small drops
are five." Then all of a sudden, a strong wind started to blow and giant
hailstones began to fall. For an hour hail fell on the house and garden. The
countryside was white, as though covered with salt. The beans were left without
a single leaf. The corn was destroyed. Manuel’s heart dropped. "A swarm of
locusts would have left more than this. We won’t have any corn or beans. All
our work is lost. Our only hope is God."
The next morning, Manuel wrote a letter:
"God, if you do not help me, my family will go hungry. Because of the hail
you sent, I need one thousand dollars to replant and live until the next
harvest." He wrote "God" on the envelope and put it in the
mailbox.
Later that day, the mailman picked up
the letter addressed to God. At first he laughed, but then he thought: "I
wish I had the faith of the man who wrote this letter. To believe what he
believes. To write a letter to God." So as to not disillusion Manuel, the
mailman decided to answer the letter, but when he opened it, he discovered that
responding would take more than good will, ink, and paper.
He couldn’t raise the thousand dollars
Manuel had requested, but he gave more than half. He put the money in an
envelope and addressed it to Manuel. He enclosed a letter with only a one-word
signature—"God." When he delivered the letter the mailman smiled like
someone who has done a good deed. He watched as Manuel opened the letter.
Manuel didn’t show the slightest surprise upon seeing the money, but he became
angry as he counted it. The next day the mailman opened another letter from
Manuel and read: "God, I only got $600 of the money you sent. Please send
the rest of it again, but don’t send it through the post office, because the
mailman is a thief." (http://introtoliterature-d.wikispaces.com/A+Letter+to+God,
A Letter to God, Gregory Lopez y Fuentes).
WHAT
SENDS US TO OUR KNEES?
That story makes us smile. Sending a letter to God is silly. Believing that God will send a thousand
dollars in the mail is even sillier still.
Sometimes simple prayers seem so naïve.
For some people, especially educated, sophisticated people, is hard to
take time to pray at all. Why pray for
something when I’m doing well all by myself?
In a world where we have so much already, it’s getting harder for many
people to pray. Maybe, part of the problem is that we are
praying for the wrong things. Maybe we
don’t really understand what prayer is supposed to be.
In our text for today, Paul is
praying. He begins this text telling
us: “For this reason I bow my knees
before the Father” (3.14). We know from Jewish tradition that “good Jews”
pray standing up, with their hands out and palms up. They only kneel to their knees in
emergencies. What kind of “emergency”
will send you to your knees beside your bed?
When was the last time you kneeled in prayer? What does it take drive you there?
Again, Paul says, “for this reason I bow my knees before the Father.” What “reason” will get you to your knees. Maybe someone you love gets sick and you
start praying. Even though there is no
scientific evidence that cancer nor heart disease cares too much about how much
we pray. But we will pray, anyway. Some of the most prayed for people die too
soon. Some people who wanted it too end,
keep suffering. We face a big decision
and we know we should pray about it. We
pray about some things we must do, but not too hard. If we pray too hard, we might have to “do”
something about it… give our own time, money, or effort. During times of national crisis we pray. We often pray for peace in times of war, but
the war goes on, and on, and on.
What sends you to your knees in
prayer? Many things might, but often we
still don’t pray so much. Some of us
haven’t prayed in a while, and others of us realize that if we fall to our
knees we might have to have help getting back up. So, how is your prayer life? Can it improve? What would give you reasons to pray?
The apostle Paul has plenty of reasons
to pray. He has suffered five public
whippings and three beatings. He has
been stoned once, shipwrecked three times, and imprisoned more often than he
can remember. Now, he’s own death
row. He knows he will be executed
soon. WOULD YOU PRAY IF YOU WERE ON
DEATH ROW? The only light in room is
from a small square window above his head.
Paul sets a parchment on the floor in the middle of the light and writes
a letter to his friends.
What would you say if you were writing
your very last letter? How about: “Dear
Church, Get me out of Here!
This is feeling like a movie, like Dead Man Walking. But there is no Susan Sarandon coming, and I
didn’t do anything! I’m innocent. Do you know a good lawyer? I don’t belong here. You have to help get me out!
But this is not what Paul writes. Instead, Paul writes this letter from prison
to his friends in Ephesus and he says, I’m paraphrasing: "When
I think of everything that is going on I get down on my knees before God,
AND
I BEG GOD TO GIVE YOU, out of God’s glorious abundance, THE POWER TO LIVE BY
THE SPIRIT (16). God grant THAT CHRIST MIGHT BE IN YOUR HEARTS (17). May you
have the strength to grasp the width and length and height and depth of the
love of Christ (18) that surpasses our understanding. Let God’s fullness fill
you (19)."
PRAYING
FOR SOMETHING MORE
While
waiting for the warden to call his number, Paul prays for the people, not for
himself. Paul prays for the people to
have the same sense of God’s presence that Paul feels. Paul’s life is coming to a violent end, but
it doesn’t diminish his sense of God’s goodness and grace. Paul’s own experience of the world’s evil,
pain and struggle does not matter the most.
Trying to get his body out of pain is not his subject of prayer. All that counts for Paul is that he feels the
Spirit of God billowing through his body when he speaks about Jesus. Having the presence of Christ in his life,
Paul has no doubt that God loves him. He
has no need to be relieved of his suffering and pain.
Even while going through “Hell” on earth
Paul feels like he is already in “Heaven”.
God is with him. Paul feels God’s
presence and he wants his friends to fell God’s presence too. Interestingly, we seldom pray for what Paul is
praying for. We pray for all kinds of
things: We pray for things to happen, we want or need to happen. We pray that evil people will get what’s
coming to them. We pray for situations
to change, for the stuff we need or want.
We pray when we are frustrated and want people to hear us. We pray so life won’t be so hard. We pray when everything else won’t work. “O.K. folks, we say, since we don’t know what
to do or we can’t do anything else, let’s pray.” Sometimes we simply pray to find happiness,
through the right job, the right car, the right ideas, the right kids; while
even admitting we don’t ever get it all “right”. Sometimes, like Manuel, we just need some
extra cash in an unmarked envelope or to have the winning numbers at the lottery.
There is a story about journalist who
was looking for a story. A journalist is
assigned to the Jerusalem bureau of his newspaper. He gets an apartment
overlooking the Wailing Wall. After
several weeks he realizes that whenever he looks at the wall he sees the same
old Jewish man praying vigorously. The journalist wonders whether there’s a
publishable story here. He goes down to the wall, introduces himself and says:
"You come every day to the wall. What are you praying for?"
The old man replies:
"In the morning I pray for world peace, then I pray for the brotherhood of
man. I go home, have a glass of tea, and I come back to the wall to pray for
the eradication of illness and disease from the earth."
The journalist is taken
by the old man’s persistence. "How long have you been coming to the wall
to pray for these things?"
The old man thinks for
a minute: "Twenty, twenty-five years."
The amazed journalist
asks: "How does it feel to come and pray every day for over twenty years
for these things?"
"It
feels like I’m talking to a wall."
WHAT
WE MOST NEED TO PRAY FOR
What we need to pray for, more than
health, more than wealth, more than an easier or better life on earth, is a
bigger vision of God for our lives. We
need to pray what Paul prayed for. We
need to pray to feel God’s presence, to be filled with God’s spirit and with
the love of Christ, and to recognize that God is with us right now in our “inner being” (16).
Unfortunately, praying for God’s presence
and for the gift of God’s spirit is seldom what we pray for, but we
should. It is the prayer God always
answers. I had a lady come up to me
once who was very troubled about those passages in the gospels where Jesus says
plainly: “Ask and it shall be given to
you” (Luk 11: 9) and the other in John, where Jesus says thrice, “Whatever you ask in my name, I will do it” (John
14:14), and “whatever you ask in my
name, the Father will give it to you”(John 15:16) and finally, “Very truly I tell you, my Father will give
you whatever you ask in my name” (16:23). These passages were driving that lady crazy,
for she said she and prayed and prayed, and prayed and it just did not
happen. I then told her to take a close
look at those passages again and find out what “anything” and “whatever” meant
and she could find her answer. If she
needed a clue Luke gives it. John has the same answer written all
around. Luke’s Jesus plainly answer
that the “anything” and “whatever” Jesus is talking about is not “things”, but
the things of God. Luke’s Jesus
concludes his discussion about prayer with this clarification of what the heart
of true prayer is all about: 13 If you then, though you are evil, know
how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in
heaven give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him!" (Luk 11:13 NIV). Prayer is about praying for the gift and awareness
of God’s spiritual presence.
Are you disappointed? Did you think there was more to prayer than
this? I recall how disappointed Mark
Twain’s Huck Finn was when he thought prayer was about getting “fish hooks”,
but he didn’t get none so he quit praying altogether. Bad mistake.
Huck Finn missed the whole point of prayer. Instead, in his writings Paul speaks about “praying without ceasing” (Rom. 1.9; 1
Thess. 1.3; 2: 13, 5.17: and 2 Tim. 1.3) and praying in ways of the Spirit that
are “beyond words” (8.26). Our spoken prayers are not all there is to
prayer. We pray her at church, so we can
be “prayerful” in every other part of our lives. One of the oldest definitions of prayer is “bowing our heads so we can lift our hearts
up to God.” Prayer is closing our
eyes so we can see God’s holy presence that surrounds us. Prayer is the feeling about the moment that just
happened, but you can’t explain what has just happened. Prayer is the pain we feel when someone else
is hurting and the gladness we feel when another person is filled with
joy. The Christian understanding is that
every bit of our lives is a “prayer” given to God. Listen to what the great G.K. Chesterton
once said: You say grace before meals. All right.
/But I say grace before the play and the opera, And grace before the concert and the
pantomime, And grace before I open a
book, And grace before sketching,
painting, swimming, fencing, boxing, walking, playing, dancing, And grace before I dip the pen in the ink.
(http://www.goodreads.com/quotes/show/12207).
More than anything else, the heart of
true prayer is about opening and offering our lives up to God. When we ask for health, wealth, and
everything in between, we ask for too little.
The most audacious prayer is to ask
that God will surround us and fill us with the knowledge of his presence. As Martin Luther once said, we come to
church to “ask for silver” and God wants to give us “gold”. The Olympic style prayer is to go for the “gold”
in prayer, and it is to ask God for nothing less than….God.
What happens when we get the spiritual
presence of God as the answer to our prayers?
When we get the understanding that God is present, everything that is
around us changes. First we lose the
delusion that everything is about us---we are no longer the center of the
universe. Second, we start seeing others
differently. In Manuel’s case, we no
longer look at the mailman as a thief.
In our case, the person who is sick might be the person who needs a
visit from us. The person we don’t like is
no longer a stranger, but is someone we want to help. And what about that jerk in traffic, who has
just cut you off; they made a mistake, perhaps.
Because God is present you give them a break, even though they didn’t break
for you. Now, that tattooed person you
just met is no longer a punk, but is someone’s child with feelings. And what about that scary homeless person at
the traffic stop, begging at the same light every day? Could they be a human person who is
helplessly enslaved to addictions we can’t imagine for reason’s we ought to
thank God we’ve never known? Could we be
thankful enough to toss out a dollar to help them make their quoted for the day? If Jesus were in that car with you, everyone
and everything would be different.
This is what prayer is about more than
anything else. If we see God surrounding
us, we might also see Jesus within us, and we might even begin seeing ourselves
to be much different than we are. Sometimes
we can’t see that vision God gave us when we gave our hearts to him. When we are weary with all kinds of responsibilities
of everyday life; with family, work, and also church, we need a fresh vision of
God to lead us back to a life that matters.
When the hard realities of life crash down, when we feel depressed,
broken, overwhelmed, we pray and gain the knowledge that God is present to help
us put the pieces back together.
It’s even interestingly what might
happen differently now, if we knew that God was near. We might stop watching that T.V program, put
down the cell phone, and have a family dinner together, tell our children a
story, take them on a hike, spend our time differently, our money differently,
sing louder at church, read a poem, take time to be in a Sunday School class or
a small group. We might even walk up to
someone and ask, “Well, how are you?” And really wait and listen carefully for
a reply. If we know that God is with us,
we will tell the truth, even if someone doesn’t want to hear it. We might challenge the prejudices or the
negative spirit around us. We might do
something adventurous, maybe even work in a soup kitchen, work on a mission
project, or go on a mission trip instead of the same ole vacation.
When we pray for God, God gives us all
that he has; the courage we need, the trust we been missing, the vision that
life is much bigger than just what we want.
One picture I keep in my mind is the one of Jesus praying in the garden
of Gethsemane. We were studying this
just the other night, how in the gospel of Mark, Jesus prays to the Father, “If
it be possible let this cup of death be taken away from me, never the less, not
my will, buy thy will be done.” Three
times Jesus prayed, but no answer. The
disciples all feel asleep. He had no
support from them. But after Jesus
finishes praying, suddenly he tells them “Enough, the hour has come….Rise up,
he that betrays me is at hand” (Mark 14: 41-42). Amazingly, Jesus stands up full of energy,
confidence and courage, even though God does not give him and answer. What does give him is himself. That makes all the difference.
This is the heart of prayer. We must pray, as Paul teaches us, for a
bigger vision of who God is. We must
pray that our lives are in the center of his will and work. We must pray that Christ dwells in our hearts
by the power of the Holy Spirit and in the power of love and grace. Pray, knowing that at the heart of every genuine
prayer, what we are praying for is God.
Amen.